Friday, August 12, 2011

4 tips to convert any proportion



I have technical problems with my boyfriend - knows what the man behind the scenes that keeps things running smoothly and manages the main problems with the team when it has. This guy is very important to me. I need things, and it is your job to keep things running. When things don't work, I look forward to. The biggest challenge is too long, things do not work between him and me. Sometimes do not communicate well. Sometimes not with a wait of him, to not communicate at all. Sometimes I feel that it is not completely honest with me. Sometimes, I do not understand what the hell is saying, but intended to do. Often, however, almost all the time, have this leaves the feeling of that things are not going well with this guy. Part of the problem is a basic break down. We talk about technology. I speak english. Part of the problem is our history. It has always been a bit Rocky. The truth is that I always had a problem with the "type of technology". Not only that, but that others in the past. It seems somewhat reliable. I had years of frustration with these people and they have gone through different only to find myself back here, even trying to not lose my marbles still is another computer geek.



Few days ago I listened to a beautiful woman, Marion, tell me how his life dating was cursed. "It has been almost seven years." Seriously, I think that I am coming to the guy even repeatedly. They may be individually different, but ultimately it is the same. Communication down jumps or are totally dishonest and unreliable. I know that all men are not. I am sure that there are good out there. But seriously, for me, is always the same old story... "Hum..."

It is ancient history. We all have a lot of stories that run simultaneously in our lives. We have a history of each person. The truth is that all my equipment were not uber flakes. What I am trying now probably not okay. However, until that I heard of Marion, in the list of losers, which she has dated, still not fully realized what he was doing. It was converted by Jamie, my poor computer geek, the role of technical origin still irresponsible, patronising disappointment in my life. When assumed that I did not know was that it was released for this part. I do know is that things do not work. Not only the team, but in general things between us. In a recent message of forgiveness, he said he had no idea why he felt like he was constantly dropping the ball with me. I know why.

About 85% of our lives are controlled by the subconscious. The subconscious manages all the scripts that shape our experiences. Therefore the laborious writing a script and make a new story. However, consciousness is the key. How do that writing a script about a relationship that doesn't work, is her husband or his computer technology?
1. Literally write it. Take your time to write a description at the present time the wonderful relationship that I would like to share with this person. "I can't believe how things are working with Jamie." Seriously, this guy has my back! I do not think more about technical issues because it is more than. I am more happy then pay this guy. "He has given me that quiet!" (2) If the previous script exits immediately, squash. Mentally to stop and think about their new line of history. Remember that it is all the story - you can change. Try EFT or some other energy sources, method of compensation. Don't let that old scripts to run. (3) If the person has not changed his story and start to behave in a way that activates the previous script, (and it is likely that in the first place), take a deep breath and referr back to number 2. Remember that writing his story. They have no power over their experience. Even if that person does not have begun to sequence command has been modified, has and will eventually detect. 4. If the frustration continues, clue them in. "in the past you and I had some difficulties in understanding others, and this caused much frustration." However, a few days ago I decided that I would like that our relationship is different. I have an intention that we have a great really what is happening here and work well together. "Do you feel things between us improve, cannot?"


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